I would make sure to read this and any other related thread if not done so as most things have already been addressed.
1) small sealed is the easiest, lightest, most compact, way to go, buy a good quality sub.
2) you could delete the rear speakers as I always do and use the signal from there to the amp, use the crossover built in, and then have sub level control at the HU. (I have not verified the signal plays down all the way on the rears as I am putting a processor in my car so check this out to be sure)
3) components in the front, stock speakers are not horrible so do not buy cheap components and expect much of an upgrade, in fact I would not buy car audio branded speakers at all, just buy midbass and tweeters and install them, covered in this or other threads
I will be working on a flip the spare tire, small, low weight but great output sub to offer after I finish this and another road trip, end of Jan or so I should be started on it.
Please post up info on the spare tire you are running, I ditched the big stock spare and plan to run carry a patch kit, small compressor and a can of fix a flat for emergencies as well as small tool kit, I might reconsider depending on the weight of the aluminum compact spare.
Thanks